tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2603240159922174149.post8358261580683659708..comments2023-10-30T09:04:58.639-04:00Comments on Linda's Bee Hive: A Few Final ThoughtsLindabeehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15027159536315982018noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2603240159922174149.post-20182023810427740852013-05-06T22:17:07.369-04:002013-05-06T22:17:07.369-04:00What a shock that "friend" was. If she ...What a shock that "friend" was. If she made the point to come back after all that time to be so hurtful, pray for her. She has some pain within her that hurts worse than anyone's loss, at least she believes that. You can ask her if she needs someone to talk to, if there was a reason she was so hurtful, but the one positive thing you can do without confronting her is pray for her.<br /><br />I agree that your mom must have been lightening up the mood with the little things that people took well, with a smile. I'm sending continued thoughts and prayers for comfort, healing and wonderful memories to hold in your hearts.Nanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06376476093305279684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2603240159922174149.post-50427272267099337322013-05-06T07:10:15.672-04:002013-05-06T07:10:15.672-04:00I hadn't thought about Mom playing those jokes...I hadn't thought about Mom playing those jokes. Mary commented in her eulogy that we didn't realize Mom had a funny side until Daddy died. Thank you both.Lindabeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15027159536315982018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2603240159922174149.post-35933942976152328132013-05-06T07:03:13.191-04:002013-05-06T07:03:13.191-04:00I agree with what Nancy said in her comment. That...I agree with what Nancy said in her comment. That was what came to my mind when you spoke of the stink bugs and the robin poop and the coleslaw falling....that your mom was laughing and playing jokes! As for the rude "friend", I'd not be too quick to get together with her. She doesn't seem like much of a friend to me. :( And if it continues to bother you, I'd even consider writing her a heartfelt note to point out how offensive her behavior was to you AND your children as well as the young mother she insulted AND your Krissy about her shorts. Then...she will either realize it and try to mend her ways OR she will become defensive and you'll not see her again. (And it would seem like that wouldn't be such a bad thing..not to see her again!)<br /><br />Pathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03930049919252042391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2603240159922174149.post-89269365472678809622013-05-06T06:56:04.853-04:002013-05-06T06:56:04.853-04:00I have no words about that rude "friend"...I have no words about that rude "friend". On the other hand we have a saying in our family. When something goes "wrong" we say "oh, you must have been telling a great story about (insert deceased name here) she's laughingso hardshe made the bird poop. ". Or the coleslaw fall off the table. Or dead bugs to appear. That makes us laugh even more. <br />And yes, your daughter is correct. People attend services for the living. You are loved. Nancyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02263122218181506913noreply@blogger.com